I’m a lifestyle kinkster of over a decade, and pro domming is just ONE facet of my life.
I also love to teach and mentor!
Curious about kink and don’t know where to start?
New kinksters: want my mentorship and guidance?
Fellow providers: want my professional advice or lessons to expand your BDSM offerings?
Group classes by default use a 90 minute format and can be shortened or lengthened per your event needs, with or without extra time for supervised lab.
Throwing a play party? Book me to teach a class as an ice breaker, and have me house top so attendees can see the class material in action!
1on1 private student lessons can be adapted from any of these topics, or a custom program can be built for you.
Mentorships can be as structured or as casual as you prefer.
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Life is already so expensive, kink doesn’t have to be! When you’re figuring out preferences or trying new things, buying that brand new luxury toy might be out of the budget. Mayhem teaches how to find and make your own kinky toys from unexpected resources: come channel your inner MacGyver!
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One of the most common questions in impact play is “Stingy or thuddy?” In this class, Mayhem breaks down the great divide between stingy toys versus thuddy toys, and ALSO, how that great divide is much more narrow than you believe.
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Want to add more fun to your impact scenes? Want to up your impact game? In this fun class, you will be taught different games to add to your scenes. Some of the games include clothes pins, stickers, playing cards, and more!
Whether you are looking to get in some target practice or add some fun to your scene this class will give you some tools for your tool box to make impact more fun!No impact play experience necessary. Consent and negotiation for impact play will not be covered.
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Ever wanted a pro dom available for Kink Q&A, drop-in kink advice, or specialized office hours? Whether you’re a group of new kinksters learning the foundations of sadism and masochism or dominance and submission, or a group of experienced players seeking mentorship, this option is great for you!
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For Mayhem, kink is not just work, it's a deeply personal long term aspect of life. This class features one of the simplest yet most important items in Mayhem's kink toolkit: how to communicate clearly and concretely with your partner during a scene when you cannot see their face or hear their voice.
Mid-scene miscommunication is a very common mistake we all make. Learn check-ins and nonverbal cues to reduce mishaps while also adapting these tools to different scenarios, enabling both partners to remain in sync for their scene
Consent and negotiation for impact play will not be covered.
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How do we kink out without throwing our backs out? Impact topping is a contact sport! Mitigate your potential for repetitive stress injury in this class. Mayhem will share tips to improve body mechanics while throwing different impact play tools: floggers, canes, paddles, and bare hands. You will leave this class with better knowledge on how to impact top more sustainably.
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Two is better than one: Mayhem is known for their hypnotic dual wielding, ambidextrous impact style using a wide variety of impact toys. In this class they teach how to throw double floggers, canes, paddles, and more! Learn how pattern recognition, process automation, and sensory feedback enable anyone to play double handed.
Note: Dual wielding is not the same as Florentine flogging. This class will not focus on Florentine flogging.
Prerequisites: Knowledge of red, yellow, and green impact zones on the human body. Ability to throw an impact toy one handed, plus ability to practice throwing a pair of toys with both hands.
Materials needed: A matched pair of toys, like two floggers, two canes, or two paddles. No toys? Bring your hands and gloves!
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You can be disabled and also be a great impact top! Mayhem has chronic pain, nerve damage, and dexterity and mobility issues in both hands and arms. They're unable to throw standard traditional handle floggers, or any larger or heavier impact toy.
Learning about finger floggers was a complete game changer! If you struggle with grip strength, fine motor skills, you can still flog. In this class you'll learn how you too can develop a fluid, hypnotic impact topping style that envelops the whole body.
Prerequisites: Knowledge and experience throwing standard floggers.
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Description:
Aside from being a kink educator and pro dom, Mayhem is also a switch who can take it as hard as they can throw it! They’re a lifestyle kinkster of 10+ years and have learned (the hard way) several techniques to stay present and engaged in a scene.
Learn how to remain connected with your scene partner while also riding the high/low waves of bottoming as a masochist. Many of these techniques apply to bottoming for more than just impact play: Mayhem also uses these skills to bottom for rope, sharps, and more.
For the demo, watch Mayhem bottom for a short, intense scene with a trusted stunt top: Mayhem will demonstrate in real-time what techniques they use WHILE using them! You’ll then have time to practice these new skills during supervised lab.Kind of Class: Demo
Skill Level: Beginner
Prerequisites: No impact experience necessary. Consent and negotiation for impact play will not be covered. You can attend this class alone or with a partner.
Required materials: None
Suggested materials: Notebook and pen for taking notes, impact toy and play partner to practice during supervised demo