Freqently Asked Questions

  • What are your pronouns?

    They/them. Not she/her.

  • What should I call you?

    Clients and submissives: Mx Mai
    Friends and colleagues: Mayhem

  • Where can I send gifts?

    My CashApp and Amazon Wishlist

  • How can I talk to you?

    Visit my SextPanther (link)

  • How do I book you?

    Only by referral, and 1 week in advance. Book Me here. I also often attend events as house top; you’re welcome to sign up for a tasting.

  • How do I see you outside private bookings?

    I often attend events as the house top. You’re welcome to sign up for a tasting. Event organizers can book me to house top their events here.

  • Can I book you for things outside BDSM?

    I’m available for platonic dates as your asexual companion. My rates remain the same. Book Me here.

  • Where are you based?

    San Francisco, CA

  • Where can I find you?

    I’m usually at BIPOC+, queer+, kink+, sex+ events around San Francisco, Oakland, and LA.