Freqently Asked Questions
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What are your pronouns? What should I call you?
Pronouns are they/them.
Pronouns are not she/her.
Clients and submissives: call me Mx Mai or Sir.
I do not respond to ma’am, mistress, or other feminine honorifics.
Friends and colleagues call me Mayhem -
Where can I send gifts?
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How can I talk to you?
Visit my SextPanther or my Tryst!
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How do I book you?
Book Me here. I also often attend events as house top; you’re welcome to sign up for a tasting.
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How do I see you outside private bookings?
You can request me to perform or teach at upcoming events by sending my website to event organizers. You’re welcome to attend my classes or sign up for a house top tasting. Event organizers can book me to teach or house top their events here.
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Can I book you for things outside BDSM?
Yes, let’s discuss! Book Me here.
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Where are you based?
San Francisco, CA
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Where can I find you?
I’m usually at QTBIPOC, queer+, kink+, sex+ events around San Francisco, Oakland, and LA.
I also teach classes, house top at parties, and perform. Use this link to stay up to date with me! -
I’m also a provider, how do I network with you?
Whether you’re seeking virtual mentorship or are a local provider and want to meet for coffee, I’m always open to networking and professional connections!
HOWEVER:
I am not open to vanilla collaborations from non-kink professionals. If you’re a man seeking to create non-kinky content, I am not the one for you.