Freqently Asked Questions
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What are your pronouns?
They/them. Not she/her.
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What should I call you?
Clients and submissives: Mx Mai or Sir. I do not respond to ma’am, mistress, or other feminine honorifics.
Friends and colleagues: Mayhem -
Where can I send gifts?
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How can I talk to you?
Visit my SextPanther (link)
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How do I book you?
Only by referral, and 1 week in advance. Book Me here. I also often attend events as house top; you’re welcome to sign up for a tasting.
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How do I see you outside private bookings?
Aside from teaching kink classes, I also attend events as the house top. You’re welcome to attend my classes or sign up for a house top tasting. Event organizers can book me to teach or house top their events here.
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Can I book you for things outside BDSM?
Yes, let’s discuss! Book Me here.
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Where are you based?
San Francisco, CA
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Where can I find you?
I’m usually at QTBIPOC, queer+, kink+, sex+ events around San Francisco, Oakland, and LA.
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I’m a provider seeking to network with you. Is that possible?
Yes! Whether you’re seeking virtual mentorship or are a local provider and want to meet for cofffee, I’m always open to networking and professional connections!
Note: I am not open to vanilla collaborations from non-kink professionals. If you’re a man seeking to create non-kinky content, I am not the one.